If you are having trouble viewing this newsletter View It Online!

Go to ACARINGNANNY.COM

Letter From Beth

With two year old Erika and one year old Jamie, I launched Caring Nannies from the corner of our living room in Scottsdale AZ. Together with Hannah's mom and two other neighbors we formed a playgroup that kept the girls busy five mornings a week. It's 25 years later, and I'm completely amazed to see how we have all grown! Caring Nannies is grateful to the wonderful community of families and nannies that have entrusted us to help with one of the most important decisions a family makes. We have been successful because of you. And to celebrate 25 years of service, we are donating $25 of each $150 Family Application Fee to charity. We have chosen four local and international organizations who have a direct impact on the community and who share our committment to treasure children and undergird families. Starting in April '08, each new family signing up with Caring Nannies will be asked to select which of our four partners will receive that donation. Cllick here to see all four charities. Together, we will help the children in our communities flourish. We have results already: Jose is a 14 year old in junior high school. He lives down the street from The Neighborhood Center, one of our local partners. Jose was highly involved in the bike repair shop. A fast learner and hard worker, he logged in the most shop hours of all the youth and became the first to earn a bike. Without hesitation, he generously picked out a bike to take home for his 10 year old little brother.

Warm Regards,
Beth Weise, President

.:: To Menu ::.

What's New!

Caring Nannies Featured In Luxury Living

We are pleased that Caring Nannies was chosen as a featured business in the February 2008 Edition of Luxury Living published by The Phoenix Business Journal. The theme of the edition was "The Simple Life." The magazine interviewed two of our families and our Director of Placement, Erika. Dana Levy, a family law attorney with the Phoenix law firm of Mariscal, Weeks, McIntyre & Friedlander PA hired a dedicated Nanny & Personal Assistant for their third-grade son. Keri Nutting first hired an experienced Baby Nurse through Caring Nannies and now has a Nanny caring for her four year old and one year old triplets. See more Caring Nannies news!

Caring Nannies Referral Program

Feature Article

Love Languages: Are You and Your Spouse Speaking the Same Language?


People express love in different ways. Dr Gary Chapman, in his book, The Five Love Languages, identifies these as the five languages of love:

  • Quality Time
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Gifts
  • Acts of Service
  • Physical Touch

If you express love in a way your spouse doesn’t understand, he or she won’t realize you’ve expressed your love at all. The problem is that you’re speaking two different languages. Perhaps your husband needs to hear encouraging words, but you feel cooking a nice dinner will cheer him up. When he still feels down, you’re puzzled. Or, maybe your wife craves time with you—time away from the kids and television. The flowers you gave her just don’t communicate that you care.

Each child is different, and what communicates love to one child does not communicate to another. Observe your children. Watch how they express love to others. That is a clue to their love language. Take note of the things they request of you. Notice the things for which they are most appreciative. Most parents sincerely love their children, but thousands of children are living with an empty emotional tank. Most misbehavior in children and teenagers can be traced to empty love tanks. Many parents and grandparents speak the language of gifts excessively. But unless that is the primary love language of the child, gifts may mean little emotionally to the child. Sometimes a nine year old boy with a new ball glove just wants someone to play ball with him. Six year old Danny jumps into his father’s lap when he gets home from work, reaches up and messes up his father’s hair. What is Danny saying to his father? “I want to be touched!”

Discover your family member’s love languages are by taking this 30 second assessment. http://www.fivelovelanguages.com/30sec.html When family members start speaking each other’s primary love language, the emotional climate of a family is greatly enhanced.

.:: To Menu ::.

Referral Program

Learn Why A Daily Log Is Essential for
Moms and Nannies!

What kind of things does a new mom want to know when she leaves her infant in the care of a Nanny or Baby Nurse? How can the Nanny help her feel more connected to her baby?

When I was a new Mom and left my children in anyone else’s care, even my husband, I felt like I had physically left part of myself behind. When I came home, I wanted to know when they had eaten, how long they had slept, and anything they had done.

Caring Nannies has just partnered with Babble Soft—a new software company that enables Moms to check in and know that the day is going well and everyone is happy. Their products help mom stay involved when she leaves her infant in the care of a Nanny or Baby Nurse. We chose Babble Soft’s web based applications to offer a new and more effective way for our clients and nannies to record details and communicate about infant care.

Babble Soft web and mobile applications help caregivers keep track of baby’s feeding, sleep periods, diaper changes, medicine doses, and immunization records, even mom’s breastfeeding, pumping and medicine intake. Having important information stored in one location makes communication between parents, their nanny, babysitters, grandparents, or doctors seamless and reliable and gives new parents insight into their baby's patterns to help with crucial baby care decisions.

Baby Say Cheese lets you create a wonderful online baby’s first year photo album with milestones and family tree that you can share with friends and family. Parents or nannies can upload precious milestone pictures such as ‘first crawl, first smile, and first word’ and create the first year baby album that many parents long to do but don’t have the time to do. They can even email a picture postcard to their families to brighten their day

To say thank you, Caring Nannies is giving the Babblesoft and Baby Say Cheese software, valued at $19.95 to anyone who refers a friend to us who signs up in the next 30 days. This would be a wonderful gift for an expectant friend or family member.

.:: To Menu ::.

Sign Up for our Caring Nannies Newsletter

Calendar

April 16, 2008

Barnes and Noble at Town and Country at 11am on Wednesday April 16, 2008

May 20, 2008

City of Phoenix Special Election: Parks Department Measure.

May 26, 2008

Memorial Day

May 28, 2008

Scottsdale Unified School District Last Day of Classes: Early Release

Ask the Experts

Q. At what age should I expect my child to help with chores?


Above-Erika, age 2, hanging up her Grandpas socks. Those socks look almost as big as she is!

A. Children as young as two years old love to do chores they are capable of—like folding washcloths. It makes them feel important, part of the family, raises their self esteem and builds their character.  On Saturday mornings when my children were young, we put each chore on a slip of paper. Everyone took turns picking one until all jobs were accounted for. We worked together until the chores were done, then drove to Dairy Queen for treats. Bad attitudes warranted no treat or a small treat but speedy, thorough, cheerful work reaped bigger treats We found a website that delineates what chores can be done efficiently by different age children. Ask your Nanny to partner with you in training them to do the chores they are able to accomplish and develop a chore chart with photos of your child doing specific chores. Initially, it will be much more work, but you will reap family unity, wonderful memories, and more time with your children in the long run. Check out this link that shows what a family of three children, ages 7, 5 and 3 were expected to do and how long it should take them. www.titus2.com/chores/chart-d.html

Nannying is one of the most rewarding and satisfying of careers, however there are some built-in challenges unique to the field. Long hours working with children without building important relationships with colleagues can bring career dissatisfaction and increased turnover. Caring Nannies will be addressing this important subject in our next newsletter and in our blogs on the website. We understand that not every nanny can come, but if possible, encourage your nanny to reach out and begin developing relationships with others in their field.

.:: To Menu ::.

Tax Tips from Breedlove & Associates

Q. As an employer, can I take advantage of any tax breaks?

A. Yes. To lighten the financial burden for working parents, Congress has enacted tax benefits for families through employer-provided dependent care assistance (Dependent Care Account) and the Tax Credit for Child or Dependent Care. However, these tax breaks are only available if the employee is paid legally.

Dependent Care Account (also called "Flexible Spending Account"). Most companies allow employees with child or dependent care expenses to contribute up to $5,000 of their pretax earnings to an individual Dependent Care Account. The money in this account is then used to cover childcare expenses, free of taxes. The savings are approximately $2,300 per year.

Tax Credit. For those who don’t have access to a Dependent Care Account, they can claim the Tax Credit for Child or Dependent Care (Form 2441) on their income tax return at year-end. Basically, they can take a tax credit of 20% to 30% on qualifying childcare expenses. But expenses are limited to $3,000 for one dependent or $6,000 for two or more dependents. The savings from this tax break are $600 - $1,200 depending on number of dependents.

For many families, the tax savings actually exceed the employer’s share of the taxes, meaning families can save money by being legal!

Breedlove & Associates was formed in 1992 – by household employers for household employers – in order to help families with payroll and tax compliance for their nannies, nurses, chefs, tutors, personal assistants, household managers, gardeners, housekeepers, etc. For more information or a free phone consultation compliments of MBF, call 1-888-273-3356 or visit www.breedlove-online.com.

.:: To Menu ::.

Announcements

Week of the Young Child April 13-19!

Fun for Kids and Nannies!

Caring Nannies will be celebrating the Week of the Young Child April 13-19 by focusing on literacy. Nannies and families can help by collecting used books to donate to the United Methodist Domestic Violence Shelter and Family Homeless shelter. Oftentimes children need to leave their homes suddenly and must leave everything behind. We wish to give them books that they can keep for their own when they leave the shelter. If your children have outgrown some of their books, we would love to have them! Caring Nannies is hosting a children’s story hour at Barnes and Noble at Town and Country at 11am on Wednesday April 16, 2008. We are asking nannies who are able to come and bring their charges, enjoy the story hour, and bring the used books at that time. The event will be followed by lunch at a nearby restaurant.

We realize that not every nanny can come, however Caring Nannies wants to invest in our nannies, not just make a match. Along with the satisfaction and intrinsic rewards nannies experience, there is the other side of long hours working with children without the opportunity to develop relationships with their colleagues. So, if possible, please encourage your nanny to come and bring some used books your children have outgrown.

.:: To Menu ::.

Nannies of the Month

Darcey Richards

Congratulations to Darcey, who was just married in March, and recently returned from her honeymoon in a cabin in Heber! Darcey grew up the middle child out of 12 siblings-a home filled with laughter and love. For the past eight years, her parents also became foster parents. Darcey grew up babysitting for family friends and neighbors and has worked as a full time nanny for the past two and a half years with ages one, three and nine. She also was a full time caregiver for a special needs 21 year old. Darcey is energetic, loves to play with the children, and is a great multitasker. She enjoys doing arts and crafts with the children, reading and singing games to motivate them to get into the next activity. She is excellent at working with multiple children while keeping the house neat and organized. Her past families found her to be reliable, trustworthy and well-mannered.

Jaclyn Austin

Jaclyn is the type of Nanny who can walk into a home with clutter, disgruntled children and a sink full of dirty dishes, and she'll say, 'Why didn't you call me earlier?' Children really enjoy being with her, because she plays with them, thinks of fun things to do, and is well-organized. She is cheerful, willing to please, has a strong determined streak. “She has a good attitude--she wakes up happy every day. She's a 'real deal'. Such a helpful integral part of our family. I was super impressed with her ability to not react. I really appreciate her insight into children, remarked one of her former employers." She gives her charges total, continual 100% attention and has the children’s best interest in mind, rather than her own. Jaclyn has three part time positions through Caring nannies, including toddler quadruplets. Jaclyn is well spoken, smiles warmly, and is on the quiet side. She enjoys reading to children, playing down on the floor, doing lots of outdoor activities, is poised, mature, and has strong values. Her discipline style is to give them a ‘soft rebuke’ if they needed one and say “That’s not really the way we should do this”, then get them on the right track.

.:: To Menu ::.